by: Inez Ribustello
What happens when the life you’ve always dreamed of disappears in the blink of an eye?
For Inez Ribustello, that day came twenty years ago on September 11th, 2001.
Ribustello grew up in the small town of Tarboro, North Carolina but found her way to the big apple to attend culinary school in 1998. In New York City, her love for wine, food, often enjoying both at the same time, was born. She knew that working at Windows on the World—on the top floor of the Twin Towers—was where she was meant to be. So, she began to work entry-level positions as she waited for them to call and offer her a job. And waited and waited.
Finally, the call came. And she landed the job. For over two years, Inez saw her dream become a reality. Windows became her home. It became the place she fell in love. The place she learned how to catalogue and recognize over thousands of wines. The place she learned how to run and manage people, and a business, to success.
And then, on September 11th, 2001, while Inez was back in Tarboro for her sister’s wedding, that reality evaporated into thick, black clouds of smoke. The weeks, and months, that followed left her broken. Feelings of devastation, guilt, exhaustion, and hopelessness bubbled up to the surface every day.
But, over time, Inez finds herself again. Love is reborn, children provide a renewed insight on life, and new businesses provide growth and purpose.
Life After Windows is written in Inez’s honest, unadorned voice. It reads like a letter from a friend. It is large in scope, going right up to Black Lives Matter, and is an ambitious book, serious about sharing the realities of loss and what happens thereafter. Inez hopes readers find her story interesting and inspiring, and finish feeling left in a positive, hopeful place with lessons learned but memories cherished.
Helen says: 🤓🤓🤓 3/4
I read this memoir in one sitting. It was like reading Ribustello’s personal, cathartic diary- I couldn’t put it down. It was a great story of following your dreams and carving your own path in life. Bravo to Inez Ribustello- it is hard to put yourself out there for scrutiny. I am rooting for her book to succeed and help others.
This book was made all the more enjoyable and meaningful due to a reading from the author herself, the lovable, humorous and self-deprecating, Inie Ribustello. I have been familiar with Inie’s background, especially since 9/11, and this book is a glimpse into her heart and soul. In some ways a coming of age story, and I think cathartic for the author – she needed to tell this story. And I enjoyed reading it – I have a feeling this life has a lot more to be lived and stories to be told.